自家孩子誰收拾


小外孫成了章副局長的燙手山芋。


女婿不幸遭遇車禍身亡,女兒嫁到了國外,小外孫暫時不能帶去,章副局長老兩口巴不得哄外孫玩,理所當然地照顧起了這小東西。然而,兩口子爭著搶著地疼,把小傢伙慣得無法無天,這不,剛才姥姥惹得他發脾氣,他居然要擰開煤氣,把房子點著!老兩口氣得嘴唇發青,還得低聲下氣地哄他開心。


正發愁呢,鄉下表嫂登門。表嫂是家窮親戚,這回帶來許多禮物,肯定是有事相求。老兩口便不約而同訴說起了帶外孫的苦處。這樣訴說,就達到了轉移話題的目的,讓客人有事也難以啟齒。


章副局長說:“我在公安局幹到快退休了,再蠻橫的疑犯見了我都打哆嗦,想不到讓這5歲的娃娃給治住了。”章副局長又說,這小子真是個混世魔王,他睡起懶覺來,誰影響了他,他就咬誰。現在這小子胖得快到90斤了,還是頓頓要吃肉,沒肉就絕食。稍有不順,便躺在地上打滾,直到你答應他的條件為止。原以為送到幼稚園管教一下或許會好點,可送去不到一天,人家管不了,又給送了回來……


“表嫂你給評評,我們家到底誰是孫子!”


表嫂歎氣道:“老話說,兒要窮養呢。這孩子還不是讓你們慣壞了,就像小樹苗,必須打小治理,越大越難治。”


章副局長心道,我整天對下屬說這些道理,還用得著你啟發?可手中還捧著燙山芋呢,只能哼哈應對。又聽表嫂說,這叫自己的刀削不了自己的把兒。如果能捨得,小外孫可以交給她,只要一個月工夫,就能訓練得規規矩矩。


真的?章副局長夫婦交換了一下意見,一咬牙,答應下來。


第二天,章副局長帶外孫去公園玩,故意把小傢伙丟掉,讓表嫂拾了去,花言巧語給弄到了農村。再往後,只是每天電話裏聽到那邊的消息:“大兄弟,孩子挺好的。你倆再怎麼想,也不能隨便過來看他呀,那可就白費工夫了。”


離開了小外孫,章副局長夫婦心裏那真是沒著沒落的,然而,他們畢竟還是通情達理的人,既然有言在先,只能度日如年地盼到了一個月期滿。表嫂打來電話:“時間太緊了,要是有一年的訓練期,那就再理想不過了。你們若實在想得受不了,那就還你們個半成品吧。”


第二天,表嫂老兩口把外孫給送到了章副局長家中。老兩口打眼一看,呵,這孩子瘦了許多,卻變得健康結實,尤其是見到姥爺姥姥,那親熱、禮貌更是前所未有。以前飯菜上桌,小傢伙這也不好,那也不對,如今,規規矩矩,吃得那叫一個香,吃飽了,還知道把碗筷送到廚房裏。


章副局長夫婦倆你看我,我看你,不相信眼前的事實,就短短一個月,孩子判若兩人了!


表哥表嫂簡單說了管教孩子的經過——


當初他們先讓一個老鄉假裝歹徒,拐騙了孩子,然後,表嫂“碰巧”給救到了家中。這孩子乍到了農村玩得高興,可天一黑,就原形畢露,吵著要回家找姥姥、姥爺。這時,表哥把臉一翻:“小兔崽子,我們好吃好喝供著你你不享受,難道你還想讓人販子拐走不成?”說罷把門打開。外面漆黑一團,這孩子怎麼敢出去?他故伎重演,馬上躺在地上打滾。老兩口就按商量好的,一齊鼓掌,說滾得太好了,再滾還鼓掌……最後孩子只好爬起來求饒。老兩口略加安慰,讓他洗澡睡覺。


第二天吃飯,孩子要吃牛肉,老兩口回答說沒有,孩子又拿出了絕食的辦法,老倆說,你早該減肥了,你不吃我們吃,故意把飯菜嚼得山響。到了晚上。小傢伙一口氣喝下兩碗玉米粥。至於睡懶覺,更好辦,老兩口說,我們還有事呢,你自己在家睡吧,安全不能保證。嘿,從此,早晨一聽到老兩口起床,他就忙著穿衣服。


“我們見有了效果,馬上給予關懷,帶他爬山,捉螞蚱,采野果……如今相互都處出感情來了,再讓他跟我們回去住一段,他肯定不會有意見。”


章副局長兩口子瞠目結舌。其實過程並不複雜,可他們怎麼就下不了手呢?猛然,想起表嫂上次登門,一定是有事:“表哥表嫂,你們有事用得著兄弟的,我一定盡力!”


老兩口說確實有事相求:他們中年得一子,直嬌慣到25歲,這小子吃喝嫖賭無所不能,父母想管卻管不了,弄不好怕是要進監獄的。“我們手裏握著他一點證據,交給大兄弟,幫著教訓教訓。可別真抓去給判了呀,嚇唬嚇唬,讓他改了就中!”


章副局長立刻兩眼放光:“小菜一碟!憑我這三十年的老公安,怎麼可能收拾不了他!”


7 Insightful Ways to Develop Feminine Traits


Women often find it difficult to remain feminine, especially if they assume leadership positions. Some of them have already understood that they’re strong enough to surmount life barriers and achieve desirable goals. Unfortunately, such women usually sacrifice the most valuable things they have in order to be powerful and successful. They know that they have no right to relax and show weakness, because one mistake can cost them everything.

I’m not a careerist by nature and I don’t agree with the fact that every woman should have a will of steel like Margaret Thatcher had. I think that there’s no place for emotionality, tenderness, sensitiveness, kindness and gentleness in the hearts of iron ladies. Feminine qualities are an essential part of women’s nature.

Femininity is both the key and the weapon that can help every lady enchant the man of her dream. Men enchanted by delicate and feminine women are often ready to move the mountains for the sake of their love and happiness.

Women who can create beauty and comfortable home atmosphere, will always be surrounded by highly successful and manly men. Although feminine traits should be instilled in girls from their earliest childhood, if you’re already a grown-up, you still have a chance to reeducate yourself and develop these feminine characteristics in a quite short period of time.

1. Give preference to women’s style
I’ve noticed that modern women love to wear men’s clothes. They usually do it for various purposes. Someone find a masculine fashion comfortable, while others feel 100 times more confident when wearing men’s clothes or have to stick to certain dress codes. Women who prefer to wear jeans, shirts, T-shirts, and sneakers look fashionable, beautiful and stylish, but not feminine.

Over the years these women have got used to men’s style and gradually lose the sense of femininity. They start wearing their hair short and forget about jewelry or other things that make them feminine and help them look bright against the cold surroundings. It’s okay to try something new and experiment with fashion, but it’s crucially important not to cross the line, because unusual styles can have a big influence on both men’s and women’s minds.

2. Develop a feminine voice
No matter how you slice it, the voice of a woman is an incredibly important thing that can either enhance her feminine allure or alienate people. Modern men set high standards of excellence for themselves and others, especially when it comes to relationships with the opposite sex. They find women with high-pitched female voices more attractive.

If for one or other reason you don’t have the voice of an angel, you shouldn’t fall into despondency about it. First of all, record your voice for you to hear it as other people hear and analyze what kind of voice you have. If you have a lower-pitched, creaky and rude voice, consider using different feminine voice techniques to develop a female voice.

But the pitch of the voice isn’t the only thing you should focus on. Develop a feminine enunciation, expand your vocabulary and improve your grammar. As soon as you reach all these goals, you’ll be able to win the hearts of men with the help of one or two phrases.

3. Pay attention to your thoughts and feelings
It’s hard to change something in life, if there’s a complete disharmony in your inner world. Many ladies cannot reach a new level of femininity, because they’re the victims of deep-seated feelings and emotions. Psychologists state that hatred, resentment, negativity, envy and obsessive thoughts can lead to different somatic disorders and steal femininity. All unexpressed emotions usually cause increased muscle tension, spasms and have a negative effect on women’s emotional state.

As a result, women find it difficult to maintain femininity and correct posture due to muscle stiffness. This stiffness gradually replaces their graceful and beautiful movements by awkward ones.I don’t want to frighten you. I just want you to realize that it’s necessary to solve inner conflicts and achieve a peace of mind, before you make femininity, success and charisma your aims.
 
4. Communicate with women more often
Today many women, especially tomboys, don’t communicate well, because they wholeheartedly believe that female friendship doesn’t exist. In my opinion, this choice isn’t rational, because it limits their opportunities.

If you have no desire to make friends, you can just keep in touch with other ladies. Take a look around and you’ll see that this world is full of wise, prosperous, truly feminine and kind-hearted women. Active communication with such personalities will increase your feminine energy and help you become more successful in everything you do. Only women can understand all your feelings and emotional experiences without words, because there’s a strong emotional connection between you and them.

I’m also the one who don’t believe in pure and sincere female friendship, but I don’t refuse to communicate with women. To me, my mom and granny have always been my role models. They passed on their experiences to me and taught me to act like a real lady regardless of everything. Even today, I still ask my dear women for a valuable advice and learn new lessons from them.

5. Don’t take too much on your shoulders
Those women who think that they can do everything themselves are often successful, but unhappy, because they gradually turn into gerbils on a wheel. They don’t realize that their excessive independence and pride steal their spiritual energy.

Sometimes it’s okay to pretend that you’re a cute, womanlike, fragile creature and ask men for help. Gallant and manly men will be even glad to give a helping hand to a beautiful lady. Plus, you’ll be able to dedicate enough time to your appearance, self-development and keep up energetic practices.

Real woman should have a clear idea of her calling and know how to set priorities. Those who can’t imagine their lives without children, shouldn’t combine career and family life. It’s better to choose and prioritize one thing and do it perfectly than make an attempt to kill two birds with one stone and lose everything.

6. Try to be a many-sided personality
Attractive, interesting and womanly ladies are always open to change and believe that their abilities are limitless. Every woman is beautiful, unique and many-sided like a diamond. If you want to attract manly men and become more feminine, you should be ready to act like an actress, mom, wife, daughter or sister in various life situations and develop the skill of redirecting attention from one thing to another.

This skill will give you an opportunity to forget about your problems and make you smile, as if everything is wonderful, even if it’s not. Manly men adore positive ladies who can control their emotions and remain feminine, no matter what happens in their lives. Such women are doomed to happiness, because their femininity boosts the self-esteem of their men.

7. Keep your house and mind clean
Your house isn’t just a building or a place you’re living in, but a strong energy center. There’s a powerful energetic connection between you and your home. You’ll never reach a desirable level of femininity, if your home is messy and uncomfortable, because you’re a woman and guardian of the hearth. It’s not necessary to spend twenty four hours a day cleaning the house, but cleanliness and coziness are women’s moral obligations.

Besides taking care of cleanliness in your home, it’s strongly recommended to purify your body and mind as well. But how can you do it? The easiest way to clear your mind of negative thoughts and refresh your energy is take a contrast shower or a bath with sea salt. Water is a perfect remedy that can quickly wash away negative energy.

If you’re a tomboy, you shouldn’t give up on yourself. Femininity is a set of behaviors, manners, attitudes and views peculiar to real women. It means that every woman has a chance to activate and boost her feminine energy. Do you agree that femininity can change your life for the better? What way do you increase your femininity? We’d like to know your point of view.

6 Types of Nutrients Your Body Needs


When reading any kind of food and diet posts, you may notice that the human body needs a variety of essential nutrients to function properly. Unless you are a dietitian, you probably don’t know what types of nutrients your body should get on a daily basis. Every food contains at least 3 nutrients, though consuming lots of fruit and veggies each day gives you more essential nutrients. Why are these nutrients so important to our health? First of all, because nutrient deficiency leads to a great number of serious diseases, including heart disease and cancer. Here are the most important types of nutrients and why you need to get them regularly.

1. Vitamins
We all know that vitamins are important to our health, but are you sure you get enough vitamins? Any vitamin deficiency can ruin your health in a matter of several months, which is why you should eat more fruits and vegetables at least once a day. Vitamin B12 deficiency, for example, may cause permanent nerve or brain damage. Vitamin A deficiency can damage your eye health, while vitamin C deficiency can lead to weak immune system and deterioration of the gums. Vitamins are also crucial for your skin, hair, nails and mucous membranes.

2. Carbs
If you are trying to lose weight or you simply want to stay fit, you may believe that carbs are your worst enemies, but it’s not actually true. Many dieters face a number of health issues due to the deficiency of carbohydrates because of that belief. Sucrose, fructose, glucose, whole grains are all great sources of carbs.

3. Minerals
Phosphorus, potassium, iron, calcium, iodine, fluorine, magnesium and sodium are among the most essential minerals you should be consuming more to stay healthy. Phosphorus is vital for your nervous system, bones, and teeth, while potassium is essential for the proper function of all tissues, cells, and organs in your body. Iron helps to keep your brain healthy as well as keep your cells strong and healthy, improving your immune system’s ability to combat diseases. Calcium keeps your teeth and bones healthy, magnesium improves your heart health and your energy levels, and sodium is needed for regulating fluid in your body. Watch your mineral intake to stay healthy and productive all day long and get a better sleep at night.

4. Fats
Avoiding fats is another mistake many dieters commit. Healthy fats, such as such as omega-3 fats, are essential. Your body needs healthy fats to transport, store and absorb vitamins A, E, D, and K. When cooking make sure you use unsaturated fats like olive oil, corn oil or hemp oil. When it comes to saturated fats, it’s crucial to consume them in moderation – too much may cause different diseases, including heart disease, stroke and cancer.

5. Protein
Eggs, meat, cheese, fish, tofu, lentils, beans, yogurt, seeds, and nuts are all good sources of protein. Protein helps your nerve cells to repair, plays an important role in the healing process, aids in weight loss, keeps your energy levels high, and keeps your nails and hair strong and healthy. 2 servings of protein-rich foods a day is enough to stay healthy and look better.

6. Fiber
Fiber helps to reduce cholesterol , prevent diabetes, constipation, and improve bowel movements. Women should consume 25g of fiber a day, while men should include at least 38g of fiber in their eating plans. Some of the best fiber rich foods are brown rice, beans, whole grains, nuts, popcorn, berries, oatmeal, vegetables, fruits and chia seeds.

Losing track of your nutrient intake happens easily, especially if you live a busy lifestyle and stick to an unhealthy diet. Eating healthy is a surefire way to get all the nutrients your body needs. If you have any health issues or you often suffer from fatigue and insomnia, make sure you see your doctor to find out if you have any nutrient deficiency. Many doctors claim that most health issues happen because of nutrient deficiencies, so consider your meal plan again. Have you ever dealt with any nutrient deficiency?